When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl.As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.
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Now it’s time to give you a step-by-step breakdown of the process for picking up a girl. In the time it takes to think up a clever pickup line, you’ll probably miss the golden opportunity to approach. An example of a situational opener (if it’s cold outside) would be saying something like “Where did you get that amazing coat? The aim of the opener is simply is simply to grab her attention. Start with “Excuse me” if you approach a girl in the daytime. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click.
We’ll start with the approach and end with how you exchanging numbers. If you can’t think of anything to say on the spot, a simple “Hey” or “Hey, hows it going? Women don’t expect to be chatted up during their daily routines. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.
And above all make sure your compliment is non creepy or overtly sexual. Telling a girl you think she’d look sexy in a bikini is a little overboard.
Same goes for saying you couldn’t help but notice her tits. Once you can read the cues of interest women subconsciously put out there, you can start to escalate sexually.Or worse, she’ll assume you just want to be friends. Women want a man who stands up for what he believes in.If you don’t agree with what she says, challenge her. Think of something she wouldn’t normally expect a guy to acknowledge about her. So rather than say something generic like “You’re gorgeous” instead say, “You have a really nice smile” or “I like your nose piercing…it suits you…they don’t on most girls”.Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.If you meet a girl at 8.50am in Starbucks on your morning commute to work, you’d settle for a quick number exchange.If you want to learn how to pick up girls, you’ve just hit the jackpot.