Here are some of the ones we recommend: Cougar: A Guide For Older Women Dating Younger Men Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am: The Real Cougar Woman Handbook Older Women, Younger Men: New Options for Love and Romance Here are some tips to finding and keeping a younger man, who can keep up with your hot, vibrant self: The term “cougar” has a predatory connotation that women don’t want to be associated with.
To call these women “cougars” has a predatory connotation that is not accurate, considering these younger men are just as eager as the women to initiate the age-gap romance.
These women are not mother substitutes either who are “robbing the cradle,” but instead are an example of the modern day woman who knows what she wants and goes after it.
Fortunately, more women are realizing the flaw in these beliefs.
A recent study shows women are more likely to choose a younger man when dating online.
Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist in the Department of Psychology at Harvard University in his blog, the Psychology of Human Sexuality.
There are even more resources available beyond the information we’ve summarized in our post, and some excellent books have been written on the subject of being an older woman who is dating or wants to date a younger man.
On the other hand, older women are already established, are more comfortable in their skin and are finished with all the BS games they played when they were younger.
This is a big reason why younger men find older women so attractive.
Have you considered dating a younger man, but are afraid of getting your heart broken, being humiliated and ultimately dumped for a younger woman? Our culture’s discomfort with reversing the norm of the younger woman-older man dynamic may come from a deep-rooted evolutionary instinct driving women to choose the older, wiser, more powerful alpha male over the untested young buck.