Porn sites are not today’s sole web sites interfering with real relationships.Other online-overtures are also busy creating the illusion of a maximal availability of never-ending supplies of alternative partners and in that way secretly, clandestinely and through the back door undermine actual relationships.Why not register at just for fun, just to see what my chances are . We already met the first two – anonymity and convenience on the subject online-pornography.
They are emotionally distanced, disinterested and less prepared to invest in the relationship.
Their every day engagement declines and they spend more and more hours online and have decreasing energy and time for their partner and their obligations at home.
Instead having to deal with the dry reality of my relationship and the potentially irritating conflicts I seek refuge in a fantasy world where I have maximal control over the (prevailing) events. A clever Internet-operators as for instance Yahoo already even offer platforms especially targeting married folks who are looking for a little excitement on the side (for instance marriedandflirtingchat.com).
Obviously, that represents a high potential for addiction! or maybe even assuming an entirely new virtual identity and with it do everything that one would have never dared do in real life? At first blush these “little escapades” leaving every-day-life and the real partnership behind may appear to be harmless, but they are by no means that.
A tempting opportunity to thumb one’s nose at every day’s stress.
My husband is more interested in the super bowl than in me and has once again forgotten to bring the soda along?
Flirting exchanges, chat rooms, news groups, online role-playing, and social networks – wherever one looks, everywhere alternatives to vanilla sex at home.
It was never any easier to experience the security of a real relationship and the titillation of flirting and cheating at the same time.
In 2003 an Australian study revealed that an on-line affair affects the partner more deeply than watching porn.