Let's meet our straw woman You can't just conjure a woman out of thin air.
Only pictures and personality will to lend some verity to a profile, so a college friend gave me permission to use her pictures and make her face the star of this story.
Place one hand on your belly and one hand on your chest. Hold this breath for two counts, then let the breath go in a wave from the chest out the belly.
Continue with this breath feeling all three parts of the breath and think to yourself, belly, ribs, chest...chest, ribs belly. (Long pause.) With the third exhale, begin to feel the breath as a wave coming up from the belly and rising to the top of the breath beneath the throat. Finish a final cycle of this breath and after the complete exhale, return to the natural breath.
Click on the printable PDF on the right to print out the scripts below. Touch thumb to index finger...thumb to middle finger...thumb to fourth finger...thumb to pinkie finger...thumb to fourth finger...thumb to middle finger...thumb to index finger.
Short scripts can become mantras, or words to be repeated again and again, slowly and calmly. Mantras can be one word or several words, but they should be short and simple.
Concentrate on the feeling of pain, emotional pain.
Relive any past experience of pleasure, either physical or mental.
"Many men seem to pounce on women online just as they would in real life," she said.
"There's no emotional explanation for it other than they want spice and curiosity.
She's operating under the handle "Four Strong Windz" because she likes Neil Young.
As for the body of the profile (which you can read in its entirety by clicking on it above), I filled it out with feminine guidance from my fellow Business Insider colleague Caroline Moss. The good Take this guy, who seemed like a real sweetheart. He came on strong and wouldn't buzz off and then told me I seemed Jewish. I talked to Marni Kinrys, a dating and relationships expert who helps men overcome difficulties with women (she bills herself as "the ultimate wing girl," though she recently started offering advice to help women with men.) She recommends that her clients try this very exercise – impersonating a woman online – for the sake of experiencing what it's like to be on the receiving end of so many romantic, sexual, weird advances firsthand.
Feel the breath coming in through the nostrils and filling the lungs.