Hi My girlfriend and I broke up 4 months ago & she is now seeing someone else who is rich he has a Lotus, owns 2 houses & is trying to help her to deal with her demons while he has uses her for sex.
True love -- the kind that lasts -- takes months and years to form.
So, now that we've established that your ex girlfriend's new man is actually not really a "replacement" for you but rather a temporary distraction while she gets over her feelings for you, let's examine why your ex's new man may actually be a good thing for you in the long run.
It's important not to move in too fast, before your ex girlfriend has time to ponder what she's lost when she broke up with you.
Start casual, and eventually, you'll see her rebound guy fade from memory and be replaced by you.
And, chances are, he's not nearly as compatible with her as you were.
Sooner or later, your ex girlfriend will come to accept that this new rebound relationship just isn't working and won't be a long-term thing.
I am dumb founded & want her back but she has moved & is now living near him & makes it hard as she is now seeing someone else.
I don't know what to do, is she playing me or does she still have strong enough feelings for me to want to get back together?
She says that never say never about us getting back together & that she loves this guy & that if he asked her to marry him & have kids she would in a heart beat.