Check back every week for her take on dating and relationships.Atlanta, Georgia (CNN) -- "Would you be upset if a friend starting dating someone they knew you were once deeply in love with?Won’t you feel like a snake for taking your friend’s ex-girl instead of being man enough to confidently approach and pick up new women?
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You will suddenly seem less valuable and attractive to her.
However, if your relationship with her is better and you’re a more confident guy than he is, then she will see you as more valuable and it will help deepen her attraction for you. Not only might you have to deal with the pain of losing her, but you may have also lost one of your good friends.
" This is the status I was greeted with this week on the Facebook page of one of my dear girlfriends.
My knee-jerk response was "Duh, who wouldn't be pissed?
" Oddly enough, after viewing some of the discussion on the comment thread, I realized that my judgment might have been a little harsh.
I'm not trying to generalize, but most of my female friends talk about past boyfriends, dissecting why their relationships didn't work.
His actions would suggest that he didn’t care about me at all and simply went after her because he was afraid to get out there and approach and meet new women. Your friend’s girlfriend who he happily dumped: If she’s a girl who he has happily dumped, then he will be fine about it in most cases. Your friend’s wife who left him: This one is a big one. If your friend married a woman, then he most-likely really loved her.
So, if you really love your friend, you will try hard to steer clear of his wife and hook up with other women.
If you feel as though your friend needs help meeting new women, feel free to suggest that he visit my site and learn from me. Your friend’s wife that he happily left: If he happily left his wife and is glad to be hooking up with new women now, it shouldn’t be too much of a problem. What you really need to do in this situation is be completely honest with yourself about why you want to be with her.
The best way to tell him is to just be straight about it. Is it because you and her are a perfect match, or is it because you fear putting yourself out there to meet a new woman like most guys do?
If one of my friends wanted to date, have sex or even marry my ex-girlfriend, I would now be able to say, and would be genuinely happy for him, because I’ve enjoyed my choice with women for many years and am now in a relationship with my perfect woman.