Being able to share favorite moments from Supernatural or Courtney Crumrin or banter Rocky Horror Picture Show lines back and forth will make him feel like he’s known you forever. They can tell the difference between “humoring them” and an actual curiosity. A teasing joke about how he’s hitting on you can send a geek into a spiral of denials and pulling away because he’s afraid he will have offended you. Geeks appreciate a woman with wit and a sense of humor.
One of the most frequently asked questions I get on this blog is from women: “Do you have any advice for helping the girl trying to get the nerd?
” The cliche rejoinder of “Yes: show up” is a tempting (and frankly, obvious) response, but it does a real disservice to both men and women.
Before too long, the subject had taken the Finally, she mentioned that she had a copy of La Blue Girl up in her room and had I ever seen it before?
Guess who’s got two thumbs and stayed in the office to meet his deadline instead of having crazy monkey-sex with the hot-if-slightly-crazy girl because he didn’t realize she was saying “Would you like to come back to my room for a hot cup of FUCK ME GODDAMN IT”? To start with, most geeks are going to have a hard time believing that you’re actually interested in them at .
Hell, you may want to give them the “come here” nod, because they’re likely to not quite understand the “eye-contact, look away, look back and smile” sign. How many times have you been at a bar, party or book store, locked eyes with a hot geeky guy and given him your best come-hither stare, only to watch him turn back to the graphic novels?
How many times have you been giving your date the “kiss me now you fool!
A geek boyfriend will surprise you with his imaginative gifts and out-of-the-ordinary dates and experiences. The kink community has an almost shockingly heavy geek population. Ya’ll are a hot commodity to the right women.) So how do you win over a geek guy? This is especially true to shy, socially inexperienced guys – as geek boys tend to be.
It can take some getting used to if you’re used to the typical “flowers and chocolates” type, but it can be so much more rewarding. They love learning and knowledge for it’s own sake; if they have an interest in a subject, they’ll dive into it with great eagerness. If you’re looking to get tied up and spanked, you’ll find geeks are ready, willing and incredibly able. Geek guys will appreciate your love of XKCD and Avatar: The Last Airbender. (Hey, geek guys: want to know what else women like about you? You need to remember that many geeks are so used to rejection that they it; the dialogue in a geek guy’s head is a neverending chorus of rationalizations and worst-case scenarios.
” signals, only to get a The fact of the matter is, guys are notoriously bad at picking up signs that women are interested in them.
The less socially experienced they are, the less likely they are to know what to look for in the first place.
As much as guys like to toss around the idea that women can get a date – or laid – without effort, if it were true, every single woman’s magazine out there wouldn’t be plastered with advice on how to catch, keep and please a man.