Our initial e-mail to you containing your login details and how to find your way around as a Member is simply way too long to sms.
More often than not in any given month we end up spending more money on advertising and parties than we make, but in order to keep an adult community together this is what it takes.
We are a group / community of likeminded people who don't mind paying and contributing towards this lifestyle.
Bear in mind that 99% of Men join with the intention of meeting someone immediately, alot of them refuse to place their profiles and most are generally impatient and don't see their Membership through, whereas for women it is more of a long term endeavour and that contributes greatly to the success of our Club, the pie chart below is self explanatory or browse through the Intros pages and see the numbers for yourself.
Members browse each others complete profiles in the Members area and make up wishlists which we facilitate.
Swinging is a lifestyle we chose long ago and it costs us just as much, if not more than the next person to enjoy NSA fun. If Free Membership is what you are looking for, then our Club is not for you, we all pay our own way.
There are 1000's of Free Automated Dating Sites who might cater for your needs.
The same applies to parties held at either our home, the Club's premises, a hotel or another Member's home, they all cost serious money to host and each person has made that possible by paying for Membership.
We have invested 21 years of our lives into our Club and website and we ourselves dig deep into our own pockets every month to ensure the Club and website is properly run as far as advertising, parties and events go, so we don't really have much time for freeloaders.
Now consider you had "Free Member" Status on your profile, the person you are with would not have met you in the first place as you may not even have money for drinks let alone lunch or a hotel room, considering you couldn't afford to pay for Membership.