Most of his relationships were long-term, and he was able to hold a 20-year-marriage together without ever straying. Yes, but one can make a commitment without remarrying, or make a commitment and remarry at a more comfortable time for both parties.In their defense, many of the women who use the term player have been traumatized by past relationship mishaps.So,regardless if someone is taken or single, it is simply wrong and disrespectful to attempt to use anyone for their own benefits.
Another date is scheduled within days, if not hours, of the first. You enjoy each other’s company, the sex is amazing (after all, practice makes perfect and he has had plenty of it), and you are pretty sure he is The One. Believe a guy when he says he does not want to commit to you. Just ask a player where your relationship is headed, and you will likely see him head for the door. When a guy wants to integrate you into his life, he will introduce you to those who are special to him. If he keeps you isolated, it is not because he wants you all to himself. If he still maintains an online dating profile or profiles, and remains active on them long after you start sleeping together, long after you make your relationship objectives known, it may be time to consider other options. What better indicator of future behavior than past behavior?
Whether it is during the first conversation talk turns to sex, or on the first date, you can be pretty confident this guy is looking to get naked with you, and fast. He pulls back, even disappears, as soon as things go well. The relationship you think you are building is moving along nicely. But then when he does, the relationship never progresses. If you need to analyze what he means, then he likely does not mean what he says. In his mind he has covered himself and, in a way, he has. You know what they do, what they say, and what they like, but you do not know them personally. If you think your guy is a player, chances are it is you who is being played.
Collins English Dictionary - Complete & Unabridged 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co.
Women in the dating world tend to use the term “Player’ when referring to a man that lacks the ability or desire to make a commitment.
These individuals have a very low self esteem, lack of self confidence and are very insecure as well.
And this man was really desperate that it made me sick.But most of all it has to do with a person's character/the characteristic features.I myself, I'm engaged and I encountered a man whom I saw and thought he was a friend cause we had same profession as a dance teachers which was the reason of our friendship.I sensed he was dating others, He was very protective of his phone, he wouldn't always answer the phone and when he called me back it was from the car, as he would fly girls to his home for the weekend. Some see this style of dating as the mark of a player, while others look at this diffuse style as a healthy one that lessens the chance of obsession with one possibility.Perhaps a husband cheated, or a long-term boyfriend abandoned them, or a man seen as having potential dropped them soon after sex. But if they believe it is their right to control the dating process, they should seek counsel.