Image Source: Sometimes White men will go on and on about their Black friends thinking that it will somehow impress you.
This sort of reminds me of the times when White people say something inappropriate, and get accused of racism, but then quickly reply “There’s no way I’m racist because my friend is Black.” Although, the issue with your date wouldn’t be racism, the conclusion is still the same.
Goodbar.” The lesson that little boy would learn is that as long he looks cute to a woman they would cater to his needs. The little boy grows up into a man who looks fly and who knows how to get women to take care of him. In any relationship there comes a time when a man has to step up and be a man.
This male, we really can’t call him a man, doesn’t know what to do. While the mother was raising her daughter to be strong and independent, she raised her son to be cute and dependent.
This usually involves sharing some sort of heroic story where they once combatted racism.
The story usually ends with “I told them no because you should not judge someone by the color of their skin” or “I said you shouldn’t do that because it’s racist.” Can we just have a normal date where we talk about what we like to do for fun or what we do for a living?
Usually in cases where a Black man criticizes Black women or when a brotha is dating Becky.
Well Black women need to realize that the same men they complain about being playas, womanizers, and thugs, had Black mommas too.
The women who get involved with those males end up hating the male for the very thing that attracted them to in the first place.
Of course the father’s get blamed but in most cases the father was the same type of man who was never raised to be man himself. Black women are fond of saying, “Your momma Black” to Black men.
Their hair would be braided and I’ve seen toddler boys with earrings in both ears.
The kids would also be dressed fly in name brand clothing.
There is some truth there but in a community where there is an epidemic of single mothers the blame has to spread to both sides. They’ll let their sons get away with not doing well in school.