For example, the question, “Would you date someone shorter than you?” Of course, I answered yes, and lots of girls answer no.Either they are very unattractive to me, or they have some kind of rude personality that turns guys off to them in real life. Occasionally, there are attractive single girls without kids who appear online.
If you are a guy, you just have to get used to that.
For the rest of your life, everything you do will be “creepy”. We men have to get over the fear of approaching a woman. We also have to think of something to say, and try not to be creepy, or sleazy, or weird, and say something magical, but keep it chill, and relaxing, and not seem too desperate, but try to somehow get her number without seeming stalker-ish.
After all, pretty girls are hit on all the time in real life. The only reason is because she has kids, or perhaps because she’s unattractive, or maybe she has some personal baggage.
I’d say about 90% of the women on the dating websites I visit have kids. But dealing with the ex-husband who might be really possessive can be scary. I spent more time with the kid than I ever did with her. I didn’t have the time to learn about her, because I was too busy taking care of the kid. But when 90% of the girls online have kids, you’re basically relegating yourself to ONLY girls with kids.
No one will threaten him, or send him inappropriate pictures.
I’ve tried it for many years, and I’ve been on just about every site. But for some reason, I keep getting stuck with the same results . No one will really stalk him, and even if they do, who cares?”But when you go online, it takes away your personality.That really courageous way that you approached her in the coffee shop. The way you smiled at her, or made her feel comfortable and warm. Instead, she sees your picture, compared side by side with a hundred pictures of other guys. When a man joins a dating website, it’s not really a huge risk. So today, I’m deleting all of my online dating profiles, and venturing out onto a brave new experiment called, “real life”.Now, I know that it seems cruel to favor girls without kids, but – I’ve dated single mothers before. Also, when a woman has a kid, it’s harder to find any time to learn who the woman is. I played with him, disciplined him, tucked him in at night, and read him stories – the whole thing. So when we finally hit a small bump in the road, the relationship crumbled. And with Christmas around the corner, I’m simply not ready to be a father figure AND Santa Claus.