The sulking that ensues doesn’t put me in a good frame of mind for a hot blowjob, however. " You’re right: Men have to learn that this isn’t a consolation prize. I am ready, willing, and able to get it on nearly 24/7.
How I would love to hear, "Hey honey, I hear that you’re not up for some marathon fucking tonight. My boyfriend occasionally has to spend a night alone at his place to give his body a chance to recover, because when we’re together we have sex an average of two to three times a day.
To them, middle-aged men who are still horny are simply hedonistic and immature. I have since learned to be a Man, respect myself, take charge, and not take this kind of crap from women. With societal strictures, you are expected to contain this within a relationship.
But she ignores the fact that testosterone levels are not static.
Women can increase our testosterone production”¦and we should.
If her idea of showing gratitude is laughing at your libido, show her ass the door. Our sex is good when we have it, good enough that I haven’t left yet—but I know in time I will. I have spoken with him numerous times about how unsatisfied I am and how ridiculous this all is. After 10 years in this relationship (four of them married), I get it.
Male and Normal Why didn’t you just tell NGU the truth? I am straight, married, a woman, a mother, and my husband has the libido of a gnat. It is never going to change, he is never going to change, we are never going to change.
We are both total freaks and enjoy a variety of kinks, so it’s constantly different and exciting.
To me, the real evil is the over-romanticized idea of relationships that movies and books often portray.
"I’m too tired," "I’m too stressed," that kind of thing. You were right on about not wanting straight-up vaginal intercourse (no pun intended). Yes, we are lesbians, so maybe your assertion that straight couples will never have perfect libido harmony is correct, but don’t go telling people that we don’t exist at all.
Sometimes I really want a hard fucking, sometimes, you know, all that pounding is too much. With no goddamn chocolate sprinkles, thank you very much. Loving Lesbian Libido My boyfriend tells me that I am a rare desert flower.
If I want more sex, I need to divorce him and move on.