Which brings up a bigger point: let’s stop obsessing about WHY people do things. It could be any number of reasons – she’s getting over her ex, you have bad breath, she didn’t feel that spark, you talked too much about yourself, she’s seeing three other guys.
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Someone I used to be with is Catholic and recently discovered that he wants to pursue his faith more seriously.
I don’t mind at all but he ultimately felt that because I don’t believe in the same thing, he’ll end up making decisions in the future based on his faith that I won’t be able to fully understand.
I’m a big believer in searching for answers, but only where answers can be had.
Which is why I don’t spend much time worrying about how we got here or where we go when we die; nor do I obsess about why someone doesn’t like me.
The problem is that most of us can’t really respect when someone sees the world completely differently than we do.
In order to have that strong connection we crave, we look for someone who is like-minded.And yes, I have clients who value religion above all, and demand that a partner feel the same.These are all arbitrary deal-breakers, which often serve to keep these people alone for a really long time.He says I won’t be able to support his decisions and/or I’ll resent him.An example is if we were married in the future, he would want to donate lots and lots of money to the needy because he’s willing to sacrifice his own selfish needs to help others as God would want him to.Some people (including some industrious person who sent me an anonymous copy of , and another who compared me to Hitler) get really bent out of shape about this – as if I was saying that religion doesn’t matter. Religion absolutely matters – if you make it matter.