They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.
Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at California State University, Los Angeles.“[I]f a woman agrees to have sex on the first date because she wants to, her partner may make unfair attributions about her (even after asking for sex) that she is not relationship material and may be of suboptimal moral character,” Durvasula told in an email.
Fran Walfish, Beverly Hills psychotherapist, author, and expert panelist on WE TV’s .
We all know the lust-driven impulsivity on a first date is fueled by nighttime's dim lights, when sexual juices are flowing, but social context and cultural conventions also dictate when people twist the sheets.
Your palms are sweaty, knees shaking, mouth dry; you’ve come down with a case of the first date jitters.
But soon, the nervousness dissipates and you lock eyes with your date.
They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you.
From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries.
When they tell you that they don’t want these things they are lying! Early 40’s with small children – although these women are closer to your age (not really) they are at a completely different stage.
They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.