This doesn’t mean you have a great and profound relationship, it doesn’t really mean … MORE- Ask a Guy: When a Guy Doesn’t Text Back Guys don’t think about relationships as often as women do. It doesn’t mean they don’t care; it’s just not a central point of focus.Countless studies have shown that women primarily gain their sense of worth and self-esteem through their interpersonal relationships while men measure their worth based on their ability to have an impact in the world and contribute in a meaningful way.
I don’t know what the biggest relationship concern was back in the days of touch-tone phones, but these days, it’s all about a guy’s texting habits: why he used to text so much in the beginning and then stopped, why he takes so long to reply, why he disappears for days at a time, why his texts are so short, etc., etc.
The really sad/funny thing is that men have NO idea how intensely their texting habits are being scrutinized.
She may start to obsess over why he hasn’t said it and what it means.
While she’s trapped in her head, she’ll ignore all the amazing things he does for her, the things that should show her beyond a shadow of a doubt that he loves her! This doesn’t mean they’re incapable of feeling love, – it just means they often have a hard time saying it out loud.
This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.
We get a lot of questions that go something like: “I’m really confused, my boyfriend says he’s crazy about me and I’m the most amazing/wonderful/smart/funny/etc girl he’s ever dated but he always blows me off and he can’t hang out and doesn’t have time to talk on the phone or text back or take me out on dates and I really only see him late at night when he feels like it.” OK, maybe not exactly like that, but close enough.It wasn’t an easy process, but I eventually reached a point where it all made sense and all my questions and confusions suddenly evaporated.Fortunately, I’m not the selfish type and am more than happy to share everything I’ve learned.You measure the depth of a relationship by the of the time you spend with that person.You can spend all day going back and forth with some guy about nonsense.When he does something you like and appreciate, acknowledge it and reward him for it.