What would happen if you just accept that you feel love for him, AND that the relationship has run its course?
Can you find peace in acknowledging both sides simultaneously?
What characteristics can you develop within yourself to make yourself a natural fit?
All of life is built upon relationships, so if you can identify a few characteristics that you would like to grow within yourself, there is ample opportunity all around you.
We had a fabulous relationship, but it lacked certain other characteristics that would make it sustainable.
What I gained was enormous clarity, so I continued to add to the list.
Spend a few minutes daily living this new vision like a movie, seen through your own eyes (vs. Create an intention of accepting what you feel, no resistance. With this wisdom, breathe into that space where the emotion resides in your body and visualize it releasing with each breath.
seeing yourself in the picture), and FEEL what it feels like. Pay attention to triggers in your environment that remind you of your former spouse.
The questions you should ask if that happens to you include: “What do you want to do?
Is it time to dust yourself off, get over your ex, and start moving beyond the whole divorce drama?
Even if you parted on good terms, it's time to Unfriend him on Facebook, take a different route home (one that doesn't go those special places), and pre-plan new topics to chat about when you meet old mutual friends.